The most successful people in the world have role models or people they look up to who have influenced their lives. Have you heard of the saying misery loves company? The same is true for successful, happy and well-adjusted people. They seek out those that inspire them to reach new heights and avoid those that drag them down.
You should do the same. Find people with goals who are positive and support you in your ambitions. Find somebody you admire. Look up to. If they could do it, so can you.